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Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 6:20 am
by chris0matic
Rather put this in a jokingly way because that's how i've done it for most people.

Welp, I'm gay. Not bi, Not Straight, Full blown gay. Uhh. Idk if people would still like me or not, but I've been announcing this to friends and close communities (such as this one). For those that have known me for a while, I hope you'll think of me as the same as I've always been. But uhhhhhhh. Yeah.

Waiting for all the moral support, too afraid to tell anyone I know in real life

Also, to most of you, this may seem like a useless post and rather just here for attention or whatever. Uh, It's here because I'm having really hard problems telling anyone such as family and RL friends, I've been opening up to people I know online as it's been helping me out, considering all my friends (Whom I mostly expected to treat me different for) have been rather supportive about it. No idea when I'll tell my family, but as of now I'm far away from that day. :)

Re: Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 10:07 am
by Oskar-PL
Well, I'm not homophobic, so I already tell you: I accept it. I don't know what to think about it all, (not anything bad of course) but it's something that actually surprised me

Re: Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 11:32 am
by autotroph
Considering how much I've seen of your posts, that's shocking news! (I've not been around here long so maybe not but...)

Anyway, I'm coming out too.

I am not gay.

I am not homophobic for I accept gay people for who they are. Although I'm a Catholic, I do deviate a bit from what's the standard, so I don't really consider homosexuality as a 'grave sin' or all of that. If they're committed to how they are in their sexuality I'll accept that. I have to.

I just wonder about your family though: are they devoted Christians or Catholics, or are you really just not up for admitting such a big revelation to them?

Re: Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 1:26 pm
by chris0matic
Some parts christian, some parts catholic. Although they are not die hard religious, they are very 'strong' opinions against gay people. I mean, my family doesn't hate them, they just have a lot to say behind their back.

Re: Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 1:29 pm
by ApplePiah
I really do not care if you are gay. I'm fine with it! It's not a sin, if it were then I'd might care like a lil' bit.

Re: Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 1:46 pm
by Dr.Moore
Well im gay aswell, but most people knew that already. I dont know why you are taking this so seriously

Re: Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 1:48 pm
by chris0matic
Meh, not completely dead serious about it. I mean, Im gay, but I don't really think of it as a big deal, just rather let people know, makes me feel better about mai self. :3

Also, funny story about religion. I told one RL friend, he immediantly hated me and tried to convince me that it's a choice. ://///

Re: Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 2:24 pm
by Dr.Moore
chris0matic wrote:Meh, not completely dead serious about it. I mean, Im gay, but I don't really think of it as a big deal, just rather let people know, makes me feel better about mai self. :3

Also, funny story about religion. I told one RL friend, he immediantly hated me and tried to convince me that it's a choice. ://///
For me it WAS a choice. thats what gay furr- i mean gay porn will do to you... yea :oops:

Re: Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 2:27 pm
by chris0matic
It's not a choice, your either bisexual, gay, or straight. By the way you made it sound, I'd say your bisexual. :D

Re: Coming Out.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 11:47 pm
by Irontaco
Take it slow, don't go around screaming about it, just tell your most close ones only.